I work with couples who are ready to drop the act and dig deep.

You’re tired of the same arguments that start over nothing and somehow end with both of you feeling more alone.

Maybe you still love each other, or at least you want to, but the connection feels thinner every day. The resentment is quiet but constant. One of you is walking on eggshells while the other has checked out. You’re either fighting or performing and neither feels like the relationship you actually want.

I work with couples who are ready to drop the act. This is accountability-centered couples therapy. If both of you are willing to get honest, take real ownership, and do the work outside the room, we can rebuild something stronger: respect, safety to be fully yourselves, and the kind of intimacy that doesn’t require constant performance.

This work is messy. It’s not gentle. But if you’re both serious about facing the truth instead of managing the symptoms, it can change everything.

The Process

Before we begin, you’ll complete a thorough intake process which includes assessments covering your relationship history, attachment styles, personality traits, and core values. You’ll also receive targeted homework between sessions, designed to push growth where it’s needed most.

Sessions are active and alive. We look at what’s actually happening underneath the surface; the protective parts each of you brings into the room, the old wounds that get triggered in the bedroom or over the dishes, the ways you abandon yourselves or each other to keep the peace or win the fight. We slow down enough to see what’s underneath the words.

Between sessions, you’ll have targeted homework designed to turn insight into action. Homework is not optional. If you’re not willing to practice new ways of being with each other outside the room, this process won’t work.

Between sessions, you’ll have targeted homework designed to turn insight into action. Homework is not optional. If you’re not willing to practice new ways of being with each other outside the room, this process won’t work.

For couples who want to accelerate the work, I also offer extended intensives (2–4 hours). Let me know if that interests you.

Who I Work With

🔥 Couples who are in high-stress lives
🔥 Long-term partners trying to break a pattern that’s been killing the connection
🔥 Two people who still love each other but feel like they’re becoming strangers

Who I Don’t Work With

❌ One person dragging the other to therapy
❌ People who just want to vent about their partner without self-reflection
❌ People who think they’re always right
❌ People who avoid accountability, honesty, clarity and call it “kindness”


Rules and Expectations

  • No ongoing commitment required, you book one session at a time

  • All sessions are 60 minutes unless otherwise arranged

  • You must both be ready to take ownership of your actions, reactions, and the effect you have on each other

  • I don’t work with couples where emotional or physical abuse is active

  • Homework is required so that you can turn theory into action

  • Payment is 250 dollars an hour. Not payable through insurance or third parties.

    • I don’t accept insurance for couples therapy because the work is too deep, too personalized, and too outside the box to be constrained by insurance company limitations.

If you're both prepared to take accountability and face the truth, schedule your couples therapy session today. Book now.